Latest Project

It has been busy around here with birthdays and school and cleaning and laundry and everything else. We collected sap and cooked it down into maple syrup in the last couple weeks. We have three quarts and I'm hoping for more. The sap slowed down and we were only getting two quarts a day the last few days. I decided to cook a small amount (a gallon and a half) on the stove and it boiled all afternoon. Jonathan told me to keep an eye on it when it was getting close, but I didn't realize how close it was until I saw the pot smoking. Oops, bummer. It looked like burnt molasses. It didn't smell like molasses though. All that down the drain. Oh well...

So our latest project is in the basement. We are finishing a bathroom down there for the boys. I built the walls for it and James secured them to the floor. I was a little rusty in my framing abilities. It seemed like everyday James would come home and tell me I had to fix this or that. The next day I would fix the wall and make another one. Almost everyday that week I was fixing a wall. I guess that's how we learn. I was waiting for James to get started on the plumbing and I found out a few days ago that he thought I should just do it. He's so busy and it could take a while for him to find time to do it. I did change the faucet in the kitchen by myself, but I had no idea how to do rough plumbing. The plumbing in our home is PEX, so it looks fairly simple. Thanks to the internet, I've learned a few things and I hope to start this part of the project soon (I still need a few supplies).

Today I chisled and drilled a hole in the concret for the drain for the shower. I can't wait to show James, I think he'll be surprised. It didn't take as long as I thought it would. I'm trying to include the older boys in what I'm doing, so they can learn right along with me. Josh was my helper today and he kept reminding me to put on my safety glasses. That doesn't seem like him, but I'm glad for his concern for safety.

We had the electric roughed in last week. We are going to finish the rest of it ourselves once the drywall is up. There are so many other things looming on the horizon, I'd sure like to get this finished before Spring. I don't see it happening, but I sure will try.

We are trying to get rid of our dog, Selah. We have a place for her, we think, but she can't go until Monday. James decided we had to get rid of her after she chewed the wires on the van and trailer twice! She jumps up on the little kids, so we have to keep her in her pen all the time. We are hoping she can go to a good home that will train her and have more time to spend with her than we do. The only ones who like the dog are Josh and Jay. Jonathan really doesn't like her. I'll be happy to not see dog poop everywhere outside and to not have to constantly remind the kids to feed and take the dog out.

I'll try post again sooner than this last time.

Wedding

Our neice, Heather Miller, became Heather Downs this past Saturday. Rachel was the flower girl. That was pretty cool since Heather was our flowergirl in our wedding over 16 years ago. We watched our wedding video Saturday morning and it was fun to see how we've all changed. Rachel was too nervous to remember to drop the rose pedals down the isle, but she did well and she was so pretty, with her hair all done up. She got to spend a lot of the day with Heather and the bridesmaids, which included her cousin, Leah seen in the picture above.

Here is Heather and Caleb with the Miller family

Rachel had such a wonderful time at the reception with her cousin Erin. She loved twirling in her dress.

Some day we'll look back on this picture and wonder where all the time went. Oh, that we would savor these moments. When we got home Rachel was so tired. She kept crying, as I was trying to get her ready for bed and get all those bobby pins out of her hair. I asked her why she was crying and figured out it was because the day was over and she didn't want it to end. How precious!

In the Process of Training...

Our desire as parents is to train our children's hearts to love and follow Christ. That is a hard task, but we press on to reach that goal. We recently realized that some of the ways we have done things have fostered self-centeredness. In the earlier days of our parenting we came up with specific tasks for our kids to do. Jonathan often got frustrated because he'd be the only one cleaning up, so having set tasks for each child helped with that frustration. Jonathan was able to get done what he needed to and he was able to move on to more enjoyable things. Now we have had to make some changes because the words "It's not my job" was being heard in our home far too often.

Jesus was a servant and we want our children to have that same servant heart. We want them to put others first and to seek for ways to help those around them. With this in mind we have changed the way we do chores. Everyone still has their own areas of responsibility. When chore time arrives, we all start on our chores together. When someone is done with their chores, we have told them they have to go and find someone else to help. When ALL the chores are done, then everyone is done. I still sometimes hear, "I'm done MY chores," but it is getting less so. To encourage them to have a more servant heart, we took away computer priveledges until we see more consistant servant attitudes and actions. It has been a few weeks since we started this and they are starting to get computer back in small doses. If I had to do it all again, I would have implemented this a long time ago. Oh well, we may get it right by the time they are grown. By God's grace and His working in their little hearts, I pray they'll one day have a servant's heart.

Jesse Turns Three

Our sweet little Jesse turned three on January 20th. We celebrated with mint brownies and ice cream. The reason the sides of the brownies are missing is because James and Jonathan were not home yet and it was getting late, so we started without them. They were out clearing snow from a storm we had gotten.

Since Jesse's favorite thing to do is hike, we gave him hiking things for his birthday. He hasn't actually done a lot of hiking, but he talks about going all the time. He's been wanting to go, but he has to wait until the snow melts and that could take a while.

Right after his birthday, Jesse started wearing thumb guards to help him stop sucking his thumb. He has done great and now only wears the guards at night.

Right now his favorite things are Bob the Builder movies, playing babies with Rachel, playing Legos and trains.

We just love the things Jesse says and does. He is so precious! He is at such a cute age and he doesn't give us too much trouble. We are so blessed by him.